Media & Interviews

A different conversation about family separation

Family separation is usually presented as a legal problem.

Family.Reimagined believes it is first and foremost a major human transition—affecting children, relationships, homes, finances, emotional wellbeing, identity and the future of the family.

Founder Alexandra “Alex” Gray is available for interviews, podcasts, articles, panels and speaking opportunities about the lived experience of separation and how Australia could support families differently.

Topics Alex can discuss

  • Why separation should be treated as a family transition—not led by a legal process

  • The gaps families experience immediately after separation

  • The emotional, parenting, financial and workplace effects of separation

  • How adversarial processes can increase conflict, cost and delay

  • Post-relationship abuse, coercive behaviour and safety after separation

  • Why people of all genders fear being disadvantaged by their former partner

  • The key roles that lack of information, fears, in/ability to accept change, in/ability to compromise play all the way to the Family Court room and why Family.Reimagined addresses these early on

  • Why families need coordinated support from the beginning

  • The experience of self-represented people in Australian family law

  • Making separation support safer, faster, fairer and more affordable

  • The role employers can play in supporting separating employees

  • Family.Reimagined’s program and social-enterprise model

  • What 200 Australians told us about their separation experiences

What our research found

In July 2026, Family.Reimagined conducted an exploratory survey of 200 people with lived experience of separation.

Among the findings:

  • Respondents rated their overall separation experience just 2.24 out of 10.

  • 53% placed their experience at the “war zone” end of the scale.

  • 62% said they had little or no understanding of the separation process beforehand.

  • 48% said they had to coordinate the process themselves.

  • Only 8% said they coordinated the separation together.

  • 95% of respondents had children.

  • Life after separation received an average rating of 5.98 out of 10.

The research identified recurring concerns about cost, delay, safety, poor communication, fragmented services and the absence of early guidance.

The survey was exploratory and involved a self-selected sample. It does not claim to represent every separating family, but it provides valuable insight into the experiences and concerns of participating Australians.

Read the research

About Alexandra Gray

Alex is the founder of Family.Reimagined, an Australian social enterprise creating a more coordinated, child-focused and human way for families to move from one household to two.

Her perspective comes from lived and professional experience. Alex has experienced separation as both a child and a parent, including post-relationship abuse, difficult experiences with solicitors and self-representation in family-law proceedings.

For more than three years, she has also helped administer the Self Represented in Family Law Australia Facebook community, which has grown to more than 4,200 members. This has given her direct insight into the confusion, fear, cost and isolation experienced by people trying to navigate family separation.

Alex also brings more than 18 years’ experience in project delivery, business improvement and stakeholder engagement, and other experience in natural therapies and coaching.

She founded Family.Reimagined in July 2026 after recognising that separating families were expected to coordinate complex emotional, parenting, financial and legal decisions at one of the most difficult times in their lives—with no single person responsible for guiding the whole transition.

The “village” that she needed simply wasn’t there. Her response was to begin building the village she wished her own family had been able to access.

About Family.Reimagined

Family.Reimagined helps families move from one household to two with one coordinated team and a clear family roadmap.

Depending on the family’s needs, support may include family-transition coordination, parenting and family redesign, financial guidance, individual wellbeing support, safety oversight and separate independent legal advice for each adult.

The objective is to complete the human, parenting, financial and practical work before legal processes are allowed to drive the separation.

Family.Reimagined is beginning with a pilot group of Australian families so that the model can be tested, measured and improved using real participant feedback.

Families don’t end. They transition.

Media resources

The following resources are available for journalists, producers and event organisers, upon request:

  • Family.Reimagined overview

  • Founder biography

  • July 2026 research executive summary

  • Full research report

  • Approved photographs of Alex Gray

  • Family.Reimagined logo

  • Speaker and podcast introduction

  • Background information on the Family Transition Program

Media enquiries

Alexandra “Alex” Gray
Founder, Family.Reimagined

Email: alex@familyreimagined.au
Phone: 0423 488 426
Website: www.familyreimagined.au

Please include your publication, program or podcast, the topic you would like to discuss and any relevant deadline.